we dont understand all that much relating to this, but i’ve various components/alters something such as that, and feeling threatened brings about my worst components, therefore if she seems at all threatened, that is expected to take place. I suppose if this part is protective, when she seems safe, this part of her is less likely to want to turn out, so she doesn’t feel threatened first if you want to talk about things, as cocoanut said, make sure.
we agree utilizing the suggestions about using break it so don’t neglect yourself, neglecting yourself can be easy to do if you’re busy trying to help out someone else for yourself- everyone needs. while its perhaps not your obligation to control her condition, you can certainly help out by knowing & understanding what’s going on if you choose to. has she attempted to keep in touch with her alters? (she may not get a friendly response from the upset one, lol however in time its likely to obtain through) I do believe some individuals find various alters could be presented by various things, therefore she might possibly learn how to get a handle on switching to an extent too.
I would personally have thought it will be a little generalised to express all social people who have DID are needy tho, would not it rely a great deal exactly what their alters are like? .